The other thing we did was take Yue Lan swimming in the hotel pool. The cool thing about the pool is that it is a rooftop pool that overlooks the city. I bet if there wasn't so much smog, we could see for miles! Unfortunately, that was not the case, besides, we had better things to watch right there with us. I'm not sure, but it seemed it was Yue Lan's first time swimming or at least she hasn't gone very much. She was super excited and after a little while even tried jumping into Baba's arms from the side.
Today was the opposite of yesterday. It was the Medical Exam Day - a not so popular day among adopted children. Basically we were bused to a clinic on the other side of town (for those of you have been here before for adoptions, you will be sad to know that the convenient walk to clinic on the island has closed!) and spent several hours in the overcrowded and loud facility.
Check out all the people at the clinic! Yikes! |
We are happy to say that Yue Lan did fabulously at the clinic and didn't even cry when they gave her the TB test!
I loved the sight chart...the kids would turn their hand to match the picture...very clever! |
She was very brave, wasn't she? |
I wish I could say the rest of the day went as well.
On the way back from the clinic, Yue Lan was especially over excited and obnoxious. It got so bad that Eric decided to give her the Parental 1-2-3 Countdown when she refused to come back to our room. This led to her first Time Out, which led to her first crying fit, which led to her first time being mad at us. It was all a bit stressful, but probably needed to be done.
The orphanage workers told us that Yue Lan was stubborn and they were not kidding! Not only is she stubborn, but she can be soooo obnoxious - pulling on people, hitting in a playful, yet still painful manner, licking, etc. You get the picture. I suppose it is time to set down some boundaries and establish some rules. I am sure there will be more Time Outs and crying in the days, weeks, months ahead. But isn't that all part of raising kids?
Hang in there...It was in Guangzhou that Sean's personality began to shine thru and that was the first time he too got upset...During the second week, it becomes very real and final for the children...so as you predicted you may see more of those moments, but I am happy to share that they will subside...now that the first melt down is out of the way, you have an idea as to what to expect or what her triggers are. Think of it as a positive thing, she feels comfortable with you to be herself :) :) :) Still thinking and praying for you...
ReplyDeleteShe is doing super - so much better than I thought she would so we are not concerned:) Besides, we've been trained by the best (Lilly) and her tempers are tiny rain drizzles compared to Lilly's hurricanes:)
DeleteI just can't wait to get her home and into real life! I think she is going to do great. Now we just have to be patient enough to see the next few days through...
What a day. I'm so glad Hannah is feeling better though!
ReplyDeleteKathy
Hazel looks so adorable swimming in her Baba's arms. What a beautiful little girl! Hope today was a bit calmer. I agree that she must be feeling loved and secure if she can show her emotions so openly.
ReplyDeleteLilly came to play yesterday, and we girls all read your blog together. Lilly asked what stubborn meant, and when I explained she said, 'oh. Like me!' ;)
Every time we read your updates, Ele says how she now wants to adopt from China! We are hanging on your every word and picture (even the duck feet!) And continue to be thrilled for you all!
Hey there Winfrey Family! Thanks for having Lilly over to play!!! I hear grandma wasn't feeling great and your timing was spot on!
DeleteHazel is doing fabulous! She is adjusting so much faster and better than I hoped. And she seems like a normal, healthy girl. I can't wait to get her home and unravel the mystery of her heart. Until, then, thanks for reading and sending messages. We LOVE to hear form people back home and can't wait to go home!
I love reading about all your China adventures!!! Keep them coming!
ReplyDeleteThanks! Probably brings back some Asian memories, huh?
DeleteOH so terrible about the time out! Those heart girls can be quite stubborn, but they are cute! So have you been saying Yue Lan right? How much english does she know? I cant wait to meet her!
ReplyDeleteMandy
Hi! Hey one of the women in our group worked for 15 years as a pediatric cardiac nurse and she said Yue Lan does not look like any of the kids she has seen with single ventricle. Let's hope she is right!!! Fingers crossed...
DeleteYue Lan know no English...but we are communicating pretty well. Lots of gestures and pointing! She has picked up "Hello", "Bye Bye" and "Utah Sucks" (guess where she learned that!).
We have not been saying her name correctly. It is pronounced "You-A Lan" or Lan Lan for short:) Oh well. Once we get home we'll use Hazel anyways!